Deepen: A Couples Retreat

A 5-night couples retreat in Costa Rica for partners ready to deepen intimacy, strengthen communication, and grow into the next season of their relationship

September 27th- October 2nd 2026

w/ Dhyana & Vira, Tamal Qenti & Leila Dylla

Relationship is one of the greatest growth paths we walk.

It will ask everything of us —
our honesty, our humility, our courage, our capacity to listen, our willingness to repair, our devotion to truth, our ability to keep becoming.

And when it is tended well, relationship becomes more than something we sustain.

It becomes a place of profound nourishment, transformation, and life.

Deepen is a 5-night immersive retreat in Costa Rica for couples who want to deepen their connection, grow through relationship, and create a more intentional, alive, and nourishing partnership.

Whether you are newly coupled or have been together for 20+ years, this space is for partners who want to invest in the life they are building together.

This is not only for couples in crisis.
It is for couples with vision.
Couples who know there is more available.
More intimacy.
More truth.
More play.
More connection.
More depth.
More life.

This retreat is for couples who want to grow on purpose

Some couples wait until things are broken to seek support.

But thriving relationships are built by people willing to tend to them before disconnection becomes the norm.

This retreat is for couples who want to:

  • deepen emotional intimacy

  • strengthen communication

  • repair recurring patterns

  • reconnect through presence and play

  • grow their capacity for truth, listening, and partnership

  • create a more aligned and intentional foundation for the next season of life

  • remember what brought them together — and discover what wants to emerge now

Not just five beautiful nights away.
Not just important conversations in a beautiful place.
But a relationship that feels more rooted, more intentional, and more able to thrive in real life when you return home.

Maybe you’re in an incredible season and want to build on that.
Maybe you’ve felt distance creep in and want to reconnect.
Maybe you’re in a transition — parenthood, career shifts, burnout, healing, expansion — and you want to meet this season as a team.

Whatever season you’re in, if you want to deepen, thrive, and grow through relationship, this retreat is for you.

Why Costa Rica?

Costa Rica carries a certain medicine.

The warmth, the beauty, the water, the lushness, the rhythm of nature — all of it invites us to soften, slow down, and return to what matters.

So much of daily life pulls couples into urgency, responsibility, and routine. Costa Rica helps us step out of that and into a different quality of presence.

Here, the body can soften.
The nervous system can settle.
The heart can open.

And from that place, connection becomes easier.
Conversation becomes deeper.
Pleasure, play, and presence return.

This is not just a beautiful destination.
It is part of the medicine of the retreat.

What this retreat offers

Over 5 nights together, you and your partner will step into an experience that supports both depth and delight.

You’ll have space to:

  • reconnect without the usual distractions

  • explore the patterns shaping your relationship

  • strengthen the foundation of your partnership

  • grow your tools for communication, repair, and mutual understanding

  • experience each other beyond roles, routines, and responsibilities

  • rest, reflect, and remember what matters most

This is a retreat for couples who want both breakthrough and nourishment.
The inner work and the exhale.
The honest conversations and the beauty of being held by paradise.

Who this is for

This retreat is open to:

  • newly coupled partners who want to build a strong foundation

  • long-term couples who want to renew and deepen their bond

  • married couples

  • unmarried couples

  • couples without children

  • couples with children

  • couples in a good place who want to become even stronger

  • couples navigating challenge who want support, perspective, and reconnection

You do not need to be in crisis to come.
You only need to be willing.

Willing to show up.
Willing to grow.
Willing to deepen.
Willing to let relationship be a place that evolves you both.

A retreat that welcomes parents, too

This retreat is not only for parents — it’s for any couple who wants to deepen and thrive through relationship.

But if you are parents, we know childcare can be one of the biggest barriers to saying yes.

So we’ve created options to support you:

Kids Camp Option

We’ll have a kids camp available for children ages 3–7, so parents who want to attend can do so with support.

Bring a Caregiver

If you’d prefer to bring your own caregiver, you’re welcome to do that too — they can attend for the cost of accommodations only.

Because your relationship matters too.
Not just before children.
Not someday when life slows down.
Now.

Imagine this…

Imagine five nights where your relationship gets to become the priority.

Imagine waking up in Costa Rica with nowhere to rush.
Imagine meaningful conversations with the space to actually finish them.
Imagine being supported to understand each other more deeply.
Imagine laughter, softness, beauty, truth, and renewed connection.
Imagine remembering yourselves not just as co-managers of life, but as partners. Lovers. Teammates. Humans becoming side by side.

Imagine being held by beauty while also being guided through the kinds of conversations and experiences that create real change.

Imagine leaving with not only beautiful memories — but with a stronger, more alive foundation for the life you’re creating together.

That is what Thrive Together is here to make possible.

What makes this retreat different

There are many beautiful vacations.
There are many relationship resources.

But this retreat brings together something unique:

A space where growth and connection meet.
Where your relationship gets to be seen as a living thing worth tending.
Where you are invited not just to “spend time together,” but to become more conscious in how you love, communicate, and build a life side by side.

This retreat honors that thriving relationships are created — through intention, devotion, honesty, and care.

Retreat details

Our Team

We believe relationships deserve to be nourished before they become depleted.

We believe couples need spaces where they can step out of the noise of daily life and truly see one another again.

And we believe that a thriving relationship is not built by accident — it is built through intention, care, truth, practice, and time devoted to what matters.

We do not believe relationship is meant to be a polished performance or the absence of challenge. We believe relationship is a path. A living orientation. A place where we are invited again and again into deeper honesty, deeper humility, deeper love, and deeper growth.

We know what it is to meet challenge. To misunderstand one another. To feel the weight of life, responsibility, parenting, and all that a shared life asks of two people. And we also know the beauty and strength that is forged when two people stay committed to listening, reflecting, repairing, telling the truth, and returning to one another again and again.

We know that love is not only revealed in the ease, but in how we fight, how we hold tension, how we stay when things are tender, how we soften, how we take responsibility, and how we choose one another through every season.

This retreat was born from that knowing.

From our love for the work of conscious relationship.
From our deep belief that partnership can be a path of healing, devotion, and expansion.
And from our desire to create a space where couples feel supported not only to work through what is hard, but to build something truly strong, intimate, and life-giving together.

Vira & Dhyana

Our relationship has been a sacred path for both of us for a very long time. We have known each other since before we were teenagers. We still have notes from those early years, dreaming of the day we would wake up in the same bed and share the same last name. There was something in us, even then, that recognized the depth of what we were meant to become together.

We have now been in a committed relationship for 15 years, married for 11, and are raising three beautiful children together. Dhyana is an Ayurveda Health Counselor devoted to supporting women, mothers, healing, and embodied family life. Vira offers psycho-somatic counseling, guiding others through trauma healing, purpose, desire, true power, and relational wholeness.

As a husband-and-wife team, we are not coming to this work from theory alone. We are living it. We are inside the practice of partnership every day. We are devoted to building a relationship that is not only loving, but conscious, honest, nourishing, and alive.

Leila & Tamal

Leila works her magic in the realm of somatics, authenticity, empowerment, and relational maturity.  She helps people heal their young attachment wounds and begin moving through the world with more internal security, power, and peace.  She is celebrated for her keen energetic tracking, emotional depth, and dynamic group work that facilitates a profound homecoming & reconciliation for people in her field.

Tamal forged his holistic Cosmovision of Life through long years in India and the Andes.  He offers ancestral wisdom,  storytelling, and ritual to feed and freshen the deepest substance of the heart.   His work is an invocation of primordial beauty and power.

Together, Leila and Tamal bring a space of passion, humor, transmutation, and devotional depth.  Their couple is grounded in the magic of Nature and the Grace of God.

This retreat is for the couple who knows there is more available

More intimacy.
More partnership.
More safety.
More aliveness.
More joy.
More truth.
More growth.
More us.

If you and your partner are ready to invest in your relationship — not because it’s failing, but because it matters — we would love to welcome you to Costa Rica.

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How to Book

Prices are per person, so each retreat participant will need to book their own accommodation selection.

Choose your accommodation and any childcare add-ons, then add them to your cart.

If you are booking for additional children, first add your main accommodation to the cart. Then return to the product page, select “None” for accommodation, choose the childcare add-on for your additional child, and add that to your cart separately.

If you are bringing a caretaker, first add your main accommodation to the cart. Then return to the product page, select the caretaker’s accommodation option, and add that to your cart separately.

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